My Top 5 Ranking of Sexual Preferences
A few months ago I already wrote about male sexual practices and ranked them in a Top 5 list. Today it’s the women’s turn. If men think that women like to be particularly cuddly and content with missionary position and lots of kisses, they are completely wrong unfortunately. Most women follow well-ordered structures in everyday life and like to weigh themselves into safety, in bed they want to let go and experience something else, something that escapes these structures, a man who knows how to do it right. Variety, passion, oral sex and experimentation play an important role.
Perhaps this post will change your view on the sexual behaviour of women, dear men. Maybe that’s just my opinion, but as a woman I speak here for many of my friends and say: »Yes, we want it dirty.!« After all, the image of women has changed completely over the years. Women are successful, at the heart of their careers, take on an extremely high degree of responsibility and just want to switch off once in a while. Here are my personal top 5 sexual highlights from a woman’s point of view.
1. Passion
Without passion in bed you soon lose lust as well. Why always follow the same patterns, especially when you’re in a relationship? Women want adventures as exciting as men. Surprises can have a huge effect. For example, imagine the following situation: In the morning at breakfast, everything runs according to the usual rhythm, while I already put on my shoes and prepare myself for work, I am suddenly overwhelmed. My husband rips my clothes off and shaggers me in the hallway, a quick number, completely unexpected and intoxicating. Forget time for a brief moment, give in to these feelings, that’s what we all long for.
Even a small dose of pain can give absolute elation when applied correctly, so how about a few slaps on the butt, various power games by the likes of BDSM? It is not for nothing that »fifty shades of grey« has completely turned the women’s world upside down.
2. Orgasmic cunnilingus
The art of oral sex takes the second place and almost every woman longs for it and wants her partner to include the cunnilingus in the love play. Of course, you can do a lot of things the wrong way, but if you know a little about the anatomy of women and have just as much fun with it, special energies can occur. With the inclusion of oral intercourse, not only does sex become more beautiful, but also strengthens the coexistence. I give in completely to my partner, trust him and give him a heavenly orgasm at best. Through close observation, finding out what is really doing it for the partner, men will gradually understand the women’s world better.
3. Dirty talk / role play
Women love to embark on imaginative scenarios. One reason for this is movies. Movies shape the idea of what can happen, even if it sometimes seems to be very unrealistically implemented. Women are romantic, but also passionate and dirty. Dirty talk and role-play interrupts normal processes. Usually, small details such as my partner’s pronouncement of names during sex can be enough to create waves of many micro orgasms.
With the immersion in certain roles you outgrow yourself. By experimenting with something new, you possibly discover surprising tendencies that were not previously consciously perceived. For example, if my partner desires a hot strip, I not only fulfill his hottest fantasies, but at the same time awaken my own sexual power. The play between dominance and subservience has an extremely aphrodisiac effect in both directions.
4. Toys / Bondage / Porn
Anything that falls out of the ordinary and has not been tried yet should be taken into consideration when making love, whether in a relationship or as a single on a date. Toys, bondage games, but also joint viewing of pornography, can break down a women’s reserve and really turn her on. There are no rules, but it is always crucial that you engage into each other, listen to yourself and at the same time see what gets your counterpart going.
Maybe some women have not yet found out for themselves how to reach climax, so I recommend buying a vibrator and getting into DIY mode. Because if I can define my own body, I know how it reacts to certain stimuli only then can I show my partner how it’s done. Thus, sex and communication only need two ingredients: give and take.
5. Variety
What would the world be without variety? This is applicable in all aspects of life, experimentation and growing beyond yourself. In bed, women want to be surprised, they long for tenderness as much as they want pleasure pains. There are no categories, no drawers, the main thing is to provide variety. Women love a long foreplay just as much as the fast act, devotion just as much as taking the lead, sex in bed just as much as sex on the dirty kitchen floor.
Every woman is different, each woman has different needs, but in one thing they are all the same, pleasurable satisfaction stands and falls with the openness to embrace something new. Also the fun shouldn’t be neglected, ’cause great fucking is not at all fucking serious.
