My Top 5 Ranking of Sexual Preferences
The Ohlala Chat quickly reveals the male side’s preferences and what they imagine when you switch to the sexual part. Mostly the question comes up: »What are your preferences / taboos?« I always answer this question immediately: »I am open, contraception is important to me, of course, otherwise passionate and almost without taboo.« Of course, I also have things that are out of the question for me, such as violence without consent or NS and other fecal games. There used to be an interesting text in the chat that made me curious. The user wanted to be visited in the hotel and then poop him briefly and painlessly on his stomach. That’s it! Fulfillment has taken place! I have refused because I generally prefer dates with depth, but I can imagine that it is a good opportunity for some women to earn money so quickly. What an absurd picture, it buzzes through my head every time I discover the user’s profile. All right, I always say, »Live and let live.«
After a few months in the Ohlala chat, I now introduce you to the top 5 of the basic requirements for a date with a man. So what men expect sexually on a date. Here’s my personal ranking.
1. Blow job
Of course, the blow job comes first. Most men want oral satisfaction on their dates preferably including deep throat. Now, women can decide whether to do this with contraception or just leave it. The so-called »leak protection« is also available for men by means of a cloth. However, nobody has ever used this on me before. I think in the worst case scenario, man then simply renounces oral intercourse. Either way, it won’t hurt to deal with the man’s best piece for at least a little bit, speaking from experience. A good blow job makes him happy and somehow for a woman it’s also a nice feeling to have your tongue game on point.
2. Anal sex
Yeah, that’s what it looks like. Followed directly by the wish of a good blow job comes the request for anal intercourse. Almost every man I meet in the chat is looking for a date like this. Usually it is men who are in relationships and the partner is simply not available for this fun or it is men who simply prefer anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse. Been there, done that! This is a matter of principles, am I open to this wish, am I having fun at all? Questions to be answered. Once you get a taste of it, it can definitely bring wonderful orgasms.
3. Threesome
If you’ve always dreamed of trying a threesome, Ohlala is the perfect platform for it. Many couples look for a second woman who becomes part of their love life. But also single men ask for a second female playmate to accompany a girlfriend for example. Male friends among themselves are also looking for a date and the possibility to try out both variations are available. Personally, I would involve a friend in this kind of appointment, because you already know each other and maybe you are already familiar with each other.
4. Sexy underwear
The demand for sexy underwear comes quite late and only at number 4. It goes without saying that you wear something special on such a date anyway. Some men, however, wish for wear straps, high heels and corset. If you like that and can offer it, why not. Such appointments can always be exciting, through the conscious feeling of provocative lingerie under the noble dress, I quickly get the feeling of experiencing a joyful evening and am happy to slip into the role of the »femme fatale«. In general, I like to take time with the preparation and always find this part very exciting.
5. Toys
On the last place and thus the tail light of my top 5, the wish list for a sexy date from men’s point of view, is the vibrator or other toys. Whoever has experienced the pleasure of playing with toys once will not want to miss them so easily. Just as a woman I have experienced some highlights with this little helper and tried out different models. A clear favorite for me – no date without it. However, not every man is open to it, but perhaps this changes when women can make their experiences appealing and create a fantasy in the man’s mind. Who doesn’t want to be there when a woman experiences her climax this way? A picture that stays!